
I'm realizing more and more how much I learn about life from books and movies, which probably isn't a good thing. I see something that is 'normal' on the movie and that weaves subconscoisly into my mind as the way of life. For instance, according to some of my favorite movies, I am supposed to live in a plush New York apartment with romance always knocking at my door.
In some movies (especially those with that main plot centered around a journalist), there is the boss behind a glass door, completely walled it. In order to approach this boss, the employee must muster up large amounts of courage, the same amount of nervous sweat, and have something really important to 'bother' the boss with, namely a promotion or firing.
So, entering this corporate world, I expected some of these themes to be true. I expected, not nessarily an unappraochable castle that my boss would sit in, but that some sort of wall, whether that be physical or relational, would exist. The first few times I had something to say (even if it was some casual signature or request), I would sit and wait until just the right time to walk the ten steps to his desk, nervous that I wouldn't speak correctly.
It's funny to think that I thought this was the way things would be, and that I was nervous about it because since then, the levels of formality that I have been taught all my life (mainly from movies), have completely evaporated. I realize, as my co-workers have obviously done before me, that these walls and barriers we like to set up between us and people are not worth the supposed superiority they bring, but sharing and collaborating together is worth so much more. I'm realizing that superiority doesn't equal complete and utter formality all the time, but being real with someone is so much more important.
I'm learning that the business world isn't all about business. While getting business done, you must chat with people on a personal level, I mean, we're all people anyway. When this happens, business gets done faster. When beginning, I was afraid to chat with people about what was happening in my life, or show any type of personality at all, lest it take away from my work. Now, I realize this is utterly ridiculous.
All this to say, don't let walls get in your way. People want to be people, not stiff characters walking around. We all have personalities and lives waiting to be shared, and when this happens, business advances. We feel more comfortable with those whom we share our desk with and therefore more willing to share ridiculous ideas, and its those completely ridiculous ones that normally end up going somewhere :)
In some movies (especially those with that main plot centered around a journalist), there is the boss behind a glass door, completely walled it. In order to approach this boss, the employee must muster up large amounts of courage, the same amount of nervous sweat, and have something really important to 'bother' the boss with, namely a promotion or firing.
So, entering this corporate world, I expected some of these themes to be true. I expected, not nessarily an unappraochable castle that my boss would sit in, but that some sort of wall, whether that be physical or relational, would exist. The first few times I had something to say (even if it was some casual signature or request), I would sit and wait until just the right time to walk the ten steps to his desk, nervous that I wouldn't speak correctly.
It's funny to think that I thought this was the way things would be, and that I was nervous about it because since then, the levels of formality that I have been taught all my life (mainly from movies), have completely evaporated. I realize, as my co-workers have obviously done before me, that these walls and barriers we like to set up between us and people are not worth the supposed superiority they bring, but sharing and collaborating together is worth so much more. I'm realizing that superiority doesn't equal complete and utter formality all the time, but being real with someone is so much more important.
I'm learning that the business world isn't all about business. While getting business done, you must chat with people on a personal level, I mean, we're all people anyway. When this happens, business gets done faster. When beginning, I was afraid to chat with people about what was happening in my life, or show any type of personality at all, lest it take away from my work. Now, I realize this is utterly ridiculous.
All this to say, don't let walls get in your way. People want to be people, not stiff characters walking around. We all have personalities and lives waiting to be shared, and when this happens, business advances. We feel more comfortable with those whom we share our desk with and therefore more willing to share ridiculous ideas, and its those completely ridiculous ones that normally end up going somewhere :)

